You are the Author of your life – Don’t allow anyone to get away with the lifetime ROYALTY

I just stopped and pondered whether I would give my pen to anyone else to write down my deepest feelings and thoughts.  No ways !!  For me, it’s like giving my one and only pen during an examination when I have more than 50% of the exam paper to complete.  More so,  when I have prepared brilliantly and know all the answers to the questions in the exam paper. You may call me selfish but it’s fine with me.  The same holds true for our wonderful LIFE.  Never ever allow anyone to get into your personal space and dictate to you what you should be living your life.  It’s a fact that no one will understand our deepest feelings.  When this is true, how you can give the pen of your life to someone else who has no inkling whatsoever about your life and your thoughts.

At times, people will find you funny, notorious, irritating and totally crazy.  But it’s fine, it’s your life, you have a right to your emotions, be that way. They will not know what you are going through. You wish to be crazy, go ahead and do something crazy and feel happy about it.  There are days when we do not want to say Yes to a particular activity.  However, many amongst us would say Yes just to keep the opposite person happy. Though, it may sound nice once in a while, at some point in time, all these YES’s will start eating your personal space and you will feel terrible.  You don’t have to be that way. If you don’t feel like doing something, you are free to say and behave in that fashion.

There are days when we just don’t feel like talking to anyone, we need space, try remaining that way. It is not necessary to justify everything that you do to everyone. Actually, nowadays people understand these strange behaviours and they are matured enough not to judge anyone.  I am happy that the society is going through this change and as always CHANGE IS WELCOME.

No two people are similar like I mentioned in my last blog post.  What interests one person may not necessarily interest the other.  Appreciate thoughts and emotions of others just the way you would like your thoughts to be appreciated.  On some days, we just feel like doing nothing.  Actually I have realized that doing nothing is also an art.  Just looking into thin air and space is something not many people can do. You will feel happy and wonderful doing it for sometime for sure. I have tried doing it and I could manage to do it for not more than 20 mints.  But at the end of it, I felt happy doing nothing.  It actually made me feel much lighter and I felt happy that I actually did nothing for those 20 mints.  Anyways, it should not matter to anyone because that time was and is my time and I am accountable for it.

Last but not the least; no one can dull your sparkle.  Only U have the right to do so and let it be SO.

Luv and Blessings Always!!

Rekha