Don’t Try Fitting into someone else’s shoes because those are not meant for YOU.

We tend to quickly form opinions about people. We want people to change, we want them to mould themselves into what we feel right or wrong. But hey hold on!! Take a minute and think about this. At times, we find it so difficult to change even that one thing about us so how can we expect someone else to change all of a sudden.

Yes, please give thought to this THOUGHT

I happened to meet this girl who was so loud (as per what people told me). The two committees within my mind were actually trying to prove what they felt right. One said she is loud, the other one said, she is outgoing. You may call her crazy, but I felt she is unique and wants to do things her way. She likes to laugh loudly, speak out things just the way she is without adding any spice ( in our slang masala) to it.  

What you may feel immature may be fun for her. She loves to dance, sing and she decides that this is how she is going to live her life. It may embarrassing for you but I may call it living the way I wish to. Oh my God!! How much we think and how much time we have to form opinions and judge others.  What is me is something that I need to be bothered about and I like to be me. I like to be creative and I like to be JUST ME.  I cannot change because people want me to be someone else.

What I can summarise from the above is that a person’s basic traits can never change, what he or she is born with will always remain.  Yes, we can definitely make some minor alterations. A person who is basically very friendly and outgoing cannot suddenly become quiet.  The same holds true for people who are quiet and like to be them. Is it possible to completely change tables, Of Course not!! As long as we are able to understand and comprehend this, life is going to be easy.

So hey you beautiful people out there! Be the way you are designed to be because that is your REAL YOU.

Love and Blessings Always !!!

Rekha