Friday, 8 November 2013

Spreading the magic dust of positivity around – PART 1



Hi folks, This is Part 1 of spreading the magic dust.  I will be covering 3 to 4 things in this blog post and the second half will be covered in the next blog post.  Keep reading and enjoying.   Please send me your comments and any other posts you want me to write on.  Comments are always WELCOME.


Positive people have a magnetic attraction and quality within them and you will notice it clearly from the way they speak, communicate,express a lot with their hands, smile looking into your eyes and everything about them is positive.  We just love to be around them and listen to them.  This is what most of the mentors and self development geniuses do.

At times simply being with them helps us smile especially when we are feeling down.  They are hi end optimists and there is a sense of comfort when we are with them. Though we may find it difficult to act and appear positive all the time, we can definitely make a start.  So let’s start with this simple positivity exercise.

SMILE MANTRA

Try doing this, look into the mirror and smile, even if it is a forced smile. Fake it to experience it and you will feel like laughing at yourself and feel happy.

COMPLIMENT MANTRA

Though many amongst us are not very comfortable and open to giving compliments, try it out!!  Just like we love to receive compliments, be open when it comes to giving. It does not cause you a dime but it will make you feel happy. 

JADOO KI JHAPPI (HUGS)

They are absolutely wonderful and even if one person is down, a hug can change things absolutely.  I have seen many people just breaking down and crying when they are hugged.  Any sort of insecurity that one faces fades away when one is hugged.  Hug your kids at least once in a day, they will become your best friends for LIFE, I assure you that.  Everyone of us love it when we are hugged, we are just not honest telling about it.  In India, we do not have the habit of hugging our elders, but I am sure in many families we are now getting into this wonderful habit and it is absolutely wonderful and heartwhelming.


Lots of Luv to U


Rekha

p.s  Working on the second part of the MAGIC DUST and POSITIVITY

2 comments:

  1. Nice....as always...just wanted to share an anecdote that made me believe in the power of these jaadu ki jhappi...
    When I got married..as is the custom.. And as a new bride. I went on to touch my grand mother in laws feet ...she let me do it reluctantly and took my hands in here and looked in my eyes ..with a smile in her eyes and love shining thru....she said...u r my daughter... From now.. And like my other daughters or place is in my heart and not my feet...and the hug that followed was full of blessings that still reasonate in my heart.....the same was with every member of my new family.... It was then that I felt the instant connection and happily enterd my new home with lots of confidence and positivism ... And the journey has been always good..... :)

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    1. superb liked what u wrote -its so nice to hear this Divya - May your journey bring lotsa happiness and enjoyment ...........

      Remain blessed always

      Rekha

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