Can love happen Twice – Someone asked me this?

Seriously, I am not quite sure about how to approach this subject.   One of the readers of my blog asked this and I told her that I am unsure at this point in time to answer this.  I know that this was a very political answer that I gave, but I did ponder over this.  When I was a teenager, I believed that love happens once and it is forever.  I guess technology increases the chances of falling in love (honestly).  Out of sight out of mind is definitely true in many cases that I have seen and heard.

With applications like Whatsap and other social media, you tend to get in touch with friends, your old love is ignited and so many things.  I am not saying that technology is the only root cause for many things that are happening around.  But it definitely has a role to play. The social networking websites provide enough room for a man and woman to express themselves without necessarily being serious about a relationship.

Gone are the days when men and women were naughty at forty, now you can get naughty at any age.  These technology gadgets have equipped us with a new vigour, enthusiasm and opened up opportunities. Applications like Whatsapp, Facebook are definitely places where one can voice out their feelings to their college or school friends (this entirely depends on the rapport they share with their friends).

I am not quite sure as to whether it is wrong to fall in love again.  Yes, it happens many a times for e.g. in a corporate setting.  Two people working together for eight hours on a particular job/project and yes, it does happen. I have seen BMM students who work on projects continuously on specific projects getting attracted and falling head over heels.  The project changes, the guy or girl changes. There are definitely shades of grey in every field and you or me have no right as to decide what is right or wrong.

We hear so many cases of extramarital relationships nowadays.  What is actually going wrong? Is the husband or wife lying, are they not enjoying each other’s company or is there a communication gap.  Why is the husband so cold or why is the wife not showing interest to the husband’s communication.  Yes, many do go through these so called cold periods. 

There is definitely a very thin line between being JUST FRIENDS and actually ending up in an EXTRAMARITAL relationship. There are a lot of thoughts and emotions that are going on in mind when I am writing about this topic.  Am not sure as to how the readers are going to comprehend this blogpost.  But I had to write it for one of my readers. Falling in LOVE is beautiful and there is no doubt about it, but sustaining it and staying true is something that definitely calls for a lot of guts(I should say).

Saying bye for now!!!

Luv

Rekha

p.s: There may be incidences where one is attracted to someone and two people genuinely feel for each other and there is a strong chemistry (for whatever reasons).   Nevertheless, we need to be doubly sure of what we are doing.